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How to Overcome Emotional Eating

25 March 2009 6 Comments


The problem of emotional eating may end with the scale but it begins in the mind. Stress takes its toll on your life. When your defenses are compromised your health takes a hit and so do your emotions.

Everyone has good days and bad days. How we deal with the bad ones brings emotional eating into play. You look for comfort. People who turn to food for comfort find a coping mechanism that won’t judge them, hurt them or tell them to stop. To complicate the issue, eating can stimulate the release of endorphins just like exercise. So, after you eat, you feel better.

Emotional eaters use food to relieve stress. They hide behind the food instead of seeking solutions to the problems. But, how do you know you are using food in this way? The first sign is obvious. You will gain weight if you eat too much. In light of the weight gain, examine other areas of your life:

* Have you been under stress lately at work or at home?
* Has anything traumatic happened in the last year?
* Are you dealing with a problem but haven’t found a solution?

Answering “yes” to any of these questions could mean that you are an emotional eater. You eat but you are not necessarily hungry at the time. Do you typically choose comfort foods like these?

* High fat foods like French fries, fried foods
* High carb foods like macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes
* Sugary foods like ice cream, donuts, cookies, cake

There is help for emotional eaters. The first step is recognizing that you have a problem. You’ll experience feelings of helplessness and guilt. The guilt is over potentially ruining your health and the helplessness lies in the fact that you don’t see a way out.

Secondly, seek counseling. There are many types of counselors out there that can meet your need. Emotional eating has nothing to do with dieting or changing your eating habits but gaining control over your emotions.

A counselor might suggest things like visualization, practicing problem solving skills, relaxation techniques and family support. Visualization helps you to see your problems in a realistic way and not blown out of proportion. You will also learn to see food as nutrition for the body and not an emotional crutch.

Thirdly, your family can learn your triggers for stress and be on the lookout for changes in your eating habits. They can help you be aware of the foods you are eating, assist you in making healthy food choices and exercise along with you. Proper diet and exercise increases immunity, blood flow and positive thinking. Yoga enhances the mind/body connection so you don’t eat when you aren’t hungry.

Finding new ways to solve your problems and deal with stress will push food out of the equation. You’ll feel good about finding solutions which will replace the dependence on food.

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6 Comments »

  • Judith Kennedy. Personal Coaching to help you release the YOU inside. said:

    Looks great Jenn!

    You have done a wonderful job transforming yourself and you look great!

    Nice piece on emotional eating! So very true!

    Best Wishes.
    Judith

  • Mike Casey said:

    Hey Jennifer. Nice blog you got here. I could use some online personal training advice myself. I’m not fat so I guess you can’t call me a compulsive emotional eater but I have been guilty of it quite a few times I’ll admit.

    -Mike

  • David Bruce Jr said:

    Great blog and great article, can I use this article (with link of course) on one of my addiction blogs please?

    I like this line:
    “Emotional eaters use food to relieve stress. They hide behind the food instead of seeking solutions to the problems.”

    I’m of the opinion that what the non recovering world calls ’stress’ is what addicts call ‘withdrawal’

    Thanks

  • Jenn said:

    Sure. Glad to help on one of your blogs.

  • Jenn said:

    Mike, Sign up and I’d love to be your coach.

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